This is great!
No matter what, you’re entitled to set boundaries for yourself. It doesn’t make you a bad person; it enables you to be emotionally and spiritually healthy. Sure, there are people worse off than you that could use your help. But, you should feel good about helping. You should only do what you’re comfortable doing.
Nobody wins when you’re used as a doormat. Not you; and, not the person that you want to help. Sometimes, the person that you are trying to help would actually prefer that you set firm boundaries, so that they can maintain their own sense of self.
Hope you had a good day, my lovelies.